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Robsk II
29-08-2008, 12:31 PM
He should be shot imo. I liked his music in his days but I really think he is a waste of space and just a pervert.
Not targetting saintwarwick specifically, just using it as an example...
Is it only me who really resents the fact that the term 'pervert' has become synonymous with the term 'paedophile'?
They are NOT one and the same. Pretty much everyone is a pervert when it comes down to it. If a perversion, in this context, is a sexual act which is considered taboo or outside of social norms, then hey, some people consider blowjobs to be perverted, tying people up to be perverted, etc - and I'm willing to bet an awful lot that 90% of the sexually active board users have dabbled in things they consider to be somewhat deviant, even if it's low level stuff like furry handcuffs or silk cords round wrists. Hey, a lot of men seem to love the thought of lesbians, or anal, etc etc, and these are perverted things by puritanical standards. So please consider your own proclivities before chucking those who liked a bit of mild s&m in their own home, etc etc, in with the likes of Glitter et al. Predatory sexual practices of these kinds go far beyond a perversion.
Also - what's with the moral-panic ********? I, and most leading experts in the area, consider paedophilia to be basically a mental health issue, something in the chemical and psychological make up of a persons sexuality that has basically gone wrong. Clearly, sometimes society needs to be protected from the more predatory types of people - those with sexual perversions that impact negatively on others. But most of the time, people need help, not shooting. Lock them up if they are a risk, by all means - do what is needed to safeguard the well-being of society. But if we shot everyone with mental health issues, which they can no more help having than a spinal injury related wheelchair user can get up and run around, then we are in a dangerous place and something very uncivilised and unfair. It's ignorance and fear culture that leads to these over zealous, over dramatic reactions. Clearly, no-one wants their children or families or anyone they care about to be impacted on, abused etc, by others. Baying for blood has never helped anyone. Don't say 'what if it happened to you' - of course I'd be outraged. But the fact of the matter is that ridiculous hype based reactions are indicative of no consideration or intellect used to reach a conclusion, and our society should be able to do rather better than that.
saintkiptanui
29-08-2008, 12:34 PM
I am a pervert.
Dicko
29-08-2008, 12:36 PM
Yep, agreed.
GG is a sick bastard, not a pervert.
I take my perversions seriously and am proud of them
Weston Super Saint
29-08-2008, 12:40 PM
If I honestly thought people like GG would change, I would agree with you.
Unfortunately I think saintwarwick is right. If something is wrong with the chemical / psychological balance of such people perhaps we are better off dealing with them, so that this chemical imbalance - and I assume you are alluding towards genetics here - is not allowed to continue...
I agree pervert is usually used in the wrong context though.
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 12:40 PM
It's just lazy thinking and lazy language. It's one of those words which we still use as a kind of gut-reaction to something we are uncomfortable with, maybe built in from the days when we were more.. hmm, fundamentally christian as a society. Not that practices were that different, but certainly less openly accepted.
Dicko
29-08-2008, 12:43 PM
It's just lazy thinking and lazy language. It's one of those words which we still use as a kind of gut-reaction to something we are uncomfortable with, maybe built in from the days when we were more.. hmm, fundamentally christian as a society. Not that practices were that different, but certainly less openly accepted.
You make that sound as if paedophilia is just a taboo subject, rather than being wrong
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 12:49 PM
If I honestly thought people like GG would change, I would agree with you.
Unfortunately I think saintwarwick is right. If something is wrong with the chemical / psychological balance of such people perhaps we are better off dealing with them, so that this chemical imbalance - and I assume you are alluding towards genetics here - is not allowed to continue...
I'm not talking genetics actually, I mean chemical levels in the brain and so on. It's not as if we are going to kill those poor Fritzl kids and grandkids just because daddy / grandaddy was a grand old hardcore deviant. I would say these things are a result primarily of conditioning. Many serial killers have some similar past experiences etc, for example.
I just think killing them is not a right a society that holds itself up as fair and just etc should have. If these people can't help it, which I truly believe is often the case - how can we kill them? Who deserves to die? It's just not a call we should rashly make. Plus - do you think we should also euthanise all those with other mental health issues, from schizophrenia to simple depression? Should we kill those with genetic health problems, or those more prone to them? In it's purest sense, this could be seen as benefitting society in the long term - but human society has perhaps always been strongest because of its desire to survive as a whole, to cure and preserve. Most dog owners know that mongrels are often the healthiest breed precisely because they have a mix of genetic material. Mix a red setter with a labrador and the chances of it developing epilepsy (almost all red setters do) drops.
Even if we cannot "cure" some people, I still believe we made an important progressive step in abolishing capital punishment. I don't think anyone has a right to kill anyone, simple as that, and I'd be less comfortable if we still did in this country. If it means locking people up and getting them to earn their keep for the rest of their lives in a commune, so be it. We have always spent money on curing people and palliative care for those who cannot be cured, and as our understanding of mental health increases, so should the way we treat it develop. If someone can't help something, no matter what it is, it's perhaps more worthy a cause than spending it on health issues people could avoid, like smoking related stuff. Even then, some of these things like obesity and alcoholism - they, too, should be treated with a joined up approach, understanding that sometimes these people do need proactive treatment for their mental health as well as reactive treatment to their physical problems.
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 12:54 PM
You make that sound as if paedophilia is just a taboo subject, rather than being wrong
No - I'm talking specifically about the term perversion rather than paedophilia. Whilst paedophilia is a perversion, it's an one that is unaccceptable if put into practice.
Another point - If you think about it, it seems likely that 'proper paedophiles' only become such when they A) have that kind of desire and B) lack the social education or mental health to effectively restrict their actions.
Many people have dark dreams, I suspect, or feelings they are not comfortable with, whether thats people who have violent fantasies or whatever else. I honestly suspect that for every paedo in the paper, there are several other people who harbour some of the same desires in their core but are within societal norms and thus never act on them. I would also add that it is not these people we should usually be conerned about - it's the ones who are also psychopathic or sociopathic, and don't have the same capacity to quash those things.
Weston Super Saint
29-08-2008, 12:56 PM
I'm not talking genetics actually, I mean chemical levels in the brain and so on. It's not as if we are going to kill those poor Fritzl kids and grandkids just because daddy / grandaddy was a grand old hardcore deviant. I would say these things are a result primarily of conditioning. Many serial killers have some similar past experiences etc, for example.
I just think killing them is not a right a society that holds itself up as fair and just etc should have. If these people can't help it, which I truly believe is often the case - how can we kill them? Who deserves to die? It's just not a call we should rashly make. Plus - do you think we should also euthanise all those with other mental health issues, from schizophrenia to simple depression? Should we kill those with genetic health problems, or those more prone to them? In it's purest sense, this could be seen as benefitting society in the long term - but human society has perhaps always been strongest because of its desire to survive as a whole, to cure and preserve. Most dog owners know that mongrels are often the healthiest breed precisely because they have a mix of genetic material. Mix a red setter with a labrador and the chances of it developing epilepsy (almost all red setters do) drops.
Even if we cannot "cure" some people, I still believe we made an important progressive step in abolishing capital punishment. I don't think anyone has a right to kill anyone, simple as that, and I'd be less comfortable if we still did in this country. If it means locking people up and getting them to earn their keep for the rest of their lives in a commune, so be it. We have always spent money on curing people and palliative care for those who cannot be cured, and as our understanding of mental health increases, so should the way we treat it develop. If someone can't help something, no matter what it is, it's perhaps more worthy a cause than spending it on health issues people could avoid, like smoking related stuff. Even then, some of these things like obesity and alcoholism - they, too, should be treated with a joined up approach, understanding that sometimes these people do need proactive treatment for their mental health as well as reactive treatment to their physical problems.
There are other ways to stop the 'genetical' lines from continuing other than killing people...
Sterilisation would be a relatively simple answer - but maybe selective genetics is too "early 21st century Germany" :smt102
saintkiptanui
29-08-2008, 12:57 PM
I once dreamt that I married my fat friend, that was and still is my darkest dream, the next morning I woke up and thought it was real.
Gemmel
29-08-2008, 01:00 PM
Also - what's with the moral-panic ********? I, and most leading experts in the area, consider paedophilia to be basically a mental health issue, something in the chemical and psychological make up of a persons sexuality that has basically gone wrong. Clearly, sometimes society needs to be protected from the more predatory types of people - those with sexual perversions that impact negatively on others. But most of the time, people need help, not shooting. Lock them up if they are a risk, by all means - do what is needed to safeguard the well-being of society. But if we shot everyone with mental health issues, which they can no more help having than a spinal injury related wheelchair user can get up and run around, then we are in a dangerous place and something very uncivilised and unfair. It's ignorance and fear culture that leads to these over zealous, over dramatic reactions. Clearly, no-one wants their children or families or anyone they care about to be impacted on, abused etc, by others. Baying for blood has never helped anyone. Don't say 'what if it happened to you' - of course I'd be outraged. But the fact of the matter is that ridiculous hype based reactions are indicative of no consideration or intellect used to reach a conclusion, and our society should be able to do rather better than that.
I couldn't disagree more. Even if we agreed that at its basic level it is a mental illness, that doesn't provide the sicko's the right to act on those thoughts. They are fully aware of the damage they inflict on their victims lives, but put their gratification above the lives of young children.
So i'm all for hyped up reactions and it will only be a matter of time before Glitter gets some proper justice from the public.
If they are ill.........treat them - castration
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:02 PM
Gemmel - I never said it gives them the right. If you read the bit above, I'd say that people only act on them if they are also sociopathic or psychopathic - as you put it, simply not caring about the impact on others and placing their gratification above all else. I am not in any way, whatsoever, condoning or accepting the actions.
Thedelldays
29-08-2008, 01:03 PM
Robsk II, you are still oh so very DULL
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:06 PM
Delldays, you f*cking thick idiot, if you don't like what I post, **** off and have a w*nk over naval shelling or killing civilians or something. This is an entirely valid topic for discussion in the lounge, but you, true to type, feel the need to be a tedious, purile, intellect challenged c*ck. No-one else has felt the need to come on and abuse people, instead people have done what they are meant to do in the Lounge. You're a pretty ****-poor advert for the armed services mate.
Words too long? Sorry.
Dicko
29-08-2008, 01:07 PM
You're getting into very deep, psychological waters now Robsk!
I remember seeing an article on the BBC about the film 'The Accused'
Everytime they showed the full, un-cut version on BBC2, the viewing figures rose dramatically in the final 20 minutes.
Obviously, this is when the rape takes place.
Apparantely, a huge amount of us, both male and female, have fantasies about rape
Jillyanne
29-08-2008, 01:08 PM
You're getting into very deep, psychological waters now Robsk!
I remember seeing an article on the BBC about the film 'The Accused'
Everytime they showed the full, un-cut version on BBC2, the viewing figures rose dramatically in the final 20 minutes.
Obviously, this is when the rape takes place.
Apparantely, a huge amount of us, both male and female, have fantasies about rape
I also agree with what RobskII is saying, I also consider myself to be a pervert.
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:09 PM
Excellent point Dicko. It's natural to be curious etc about some odd things, thus why people look at accidents etc, even. None of us condone rape so why does this occur? I know women who fantasise about rape, more than one. Yet clearly, the practice is not acceptable in any way. Should we euthanise those who fantasise about it? Are we to assume all these people will then go out and do it? Of course not. It is, again, those who have other issues who will enact their fantasies, not caring about the harm they cause.
Essruu
29-08-2008, 01:12 PM
I, and most leading experts in the area, consider paedophilia to be basically a mental health issue, something in the chemical and psychological make up of a persons sexuality that has basically gone wrong.
This is exactly the same as homosexuals imo and why they should all be castrated.
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:13 PM
Great contribution Essruu.
Weston Super Saint
29-08-2008, 01:14 PM
Excellent point Dicko. It's natural to be curious etc about some odd things, thus why people look at accidents etc, even. None of us condone rape so why does this occur? I know women who fantasise about rape, more than one. Yet clearly, the practice is not acceptable in any way. Should we euthanise those who fantasise about it? Are we to assume all these people will then go out and do it? Of course not. It is, again, those who have other issues who will enact their fantasies, not caring about the harm they cause.
We should certainly do something more with the people that do go out and do it....
Fantasies are on thing. Putting them into practice is an entirely different ball game....
Thedelldays
29-08-2008, 01:15 PM
Delldays, you f*cking thick idiot, if you don't like what I post, **** off and have a w*nk over naval shelling or killing civilians or something. This is an entirely valid topic for discussion in the lounge, but you, true to type, feel the need to be a tedious, purile, intellect challenged c*ck. No-one else has felt the need to come on and abuse people, instead people have done what they are meant to do in the Lounge. You're a pretty ****-poor advert for the armed services mate.
Words too long? Sorry.
wow.......deep, powerful stuff.
Dark Sotonic Mills
29-08-2008, 01:17 PM
This is exactly the same as homosexuals imo and why they should all be castrated.
If you didn't drive a cab, you'd have to drive a white van.
Sun reader by any chance as well?
Thedelldays
29-08-2008, 01:20 PM
we should do more with all hardcore criminals IMO...why single out paedos????
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:20 PM
wow.......deep, powerful stuff.
Ironically, that small polemic is probably more complex and advanced in linguistic terms than anything you will ever manage with such a limited intellect.
Thedelldays
29-08-2008, 01:22 PM
Ironically, that small polemic is probably more complex and advanced in linguistic terms than anything you will ever manage with such a limited intellect.
you have no idea who I am, what I do or what level of education I have..
just because i dont put commas in the right place or be arsed to type a few words correctly on an internet message board, does not mean i am beyond your intellect..
:rolleyes:
Patrick Bateman
29-08-2008, 01:24 PM
Not targetting saintwarwick specifically, just using it as an example...
Is it only me who really resents the fact that the term 'pervert' has become synonymous with the term 'paedophile'?
They are NOT one and the same.
Totally agree ... perverted and proud! :D
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:25 PM
Bateman, agreed.
does not mean i am beyond your intellect..
No, but let's be honest, you probably are. Your insistence on acting like a moron 99% of the time seems to corroborate any suspicions I may have. Instead of engaging with a perfectly valid conversation, putting in well constructed and reasoned arguments, you instead chose to come on and be abusive and immature. Who are you trying to impress? If you choose to act like a c*ck, expect to be judged as such.
please keep this on topic and insult free, else the infraction-fairy will make a visit...
(and before you ask, yes, DSM is the infraction fairy)
Dark Sotonic Mills
29-08-2008, 01:29 PM
please keep this on topic and insult free, else the infraction-fairy will make a visit...
(and before you ask, yes, DSM is the infraction fairy)
Do you think you could choose you words a little more carefully, Mr J?:D
Thedelldays
29-08-2008, 01:30 PM
Bateman, agreed.
No, but let's be honest, you probably are. Your insistence on acting like a moron 99% of the time seems to corroborate any suspicions I may have. Instead of engaging with a perfectly valid conversation, putting in well constructed and reasoned arguments, you instead chose to come on and be abusive and immature. Who are you trying to impress? If you choose to act like a c*ck, expect to be judged as such.
I have engaged...I asked why single out perverts, sorry, kiddle fiddlers for "special treatment"...there is a case that they are mentally ill, is it morally correct to throw the book at them? why not help them sure their illness like we do in other walks of life..
If we are to do anything about anyone, lets be harder on more hardcore, re-offending criminals and not have the "fluffy" justice system we have that allows people to preach hate against the very country that gives them a roof over their heads and free money, live here and in some cases, not answer for their actions....
Gemmel
29-08-2008, 01:32 PM
Gemmel - I never said it gives them the right. If you read the bit above, I'd say that people only act on them if they are also sociopathic or psychopathic - as you put it, simply not caring about the impact on others and placing their gratification above all else. I am not in any way, whatsoever, condoning or accepting the actions.
I wasn't suggesting you were, but (IMHO) adding another "pathic" condition onto their padeo status, seems to lessen their accountabillity for the personal decsions they take that ruin lives.
I really dont understand why we don't castrate all offenders. I see that you can request a chemical one, but why aren't we forcing this on all proven offenders?
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:32 PM
delldays, your points of view are valid - I just don't know why you need to come on an call me dull immediately.
For what it's worth, I do think that if we go down the 'punishment' route, then it should indeed be a punishment. As it happens, I'm sort of vague about whether it really does anyone much good, but that's a different issue.
Thedelldays
29-08-2008, 01:32 PM
I wasn't suggesting you were, but (IMHO) adding another "pathic" condition onto their padeo status, seems to lessen their accountabillity for the personal decsions they take that ruin lives.
I really dont understand why we don't castrate all offenders. I see that you can request a chemical one, but why aren't we forcing this on all proven offenders?
why not hang all murderers then?
Weston Super Saint
29-08-2008, 01:36 PM
why not hang all murderers then?
Sounds good.
That or the chair.
Jillyanne
29-08-2008, 01:36 PM
why not hang all murderers then?
Well it might cause problems if years later someone else was proved to have committed said murder.
Dark Sotonic Mills
29-08-2008, 01:36 PM
I wasn't suggesting you were, but (IMHO) adding another "pathetic" condition onto their padeo status, seems to lessen their accountability for the personal decisions they take that ruin lives.
I really don't understand why we don't castrate all offenders. I see that you can request a chemical one, but why aren't we forcing this on all proven offenders?
I think that Rob's point is that there is no decision making here, just an action taken on impulse.
However, those who are cognisant enough about their actions and still choose their path have gone beyond mentally ill and into the realms of pure criminals. All in my opinion, of course.
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:37 PM
I wasn't suggesting you were, but (IMHO) adding another "pathic" condition onto their padeo status, seems to lessen their accountabillity for the personal decsions they take that ruin lives.
I really dont understand why we don't castrate all offenders. I see that you can request a chemical one, but why aren't we forcing this on all proven offenders?
All I'm saying is that I think the offending takes place due to a variety of factors. Their accountability is never really brought into question by me - only the reasons for their behaviours. Clearly, they are accountable. I'm not making excuses, only explanations, if that makes sense. Offenders are accountable. Ultimately, even if someone has had an awful life and ends up offending because of their background - which really can happen, no matter how lame it seems - then by a certain age, it becomes sort of irrelevent. There might be reasons, but it is always up to them to make the right choice. The issue in this case is that some people seem - for these reasons - to make the wrong ones, and seem not to realise why that's a problem! So the work that needs doing is on their empathy and understanding of social behaviour etc, so that they do adequately understand why it's bad.
As for castration, I think that a justice system that allows for appeals and so on, and evidence based stuff, shouldn't kill or chop balls off because there is often an element of doubt. It's important to our concept of justice. You can't be too draconian because there is no appeal, which is a fundamental right. Also, I don't think there is much evidence to say criminal behaviour is a genetic thing, to be honest, and some people might literally end up inside through some poor choices rather than some 'evil' ones.
Saint Mikey
29-08-2008, 01:37 PM
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Some hope; and some despair
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Promise you'll say
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All over battersea
Some hope; and some despair
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And i will stay
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Thedelldays
29-08-2008, 01:39 PM
Well it might cause problems if years later someone else was proved to have committed said murder.
even beyond all reasonable doubt...say, harold shipman, ian huntley, moyra hindley, iain brady and the like?
why keep such inhumain being alive...WHY?....dont single out peados just as they prey on children, as they are not the only ones...
as a nation, we are too soft of criminal justice altogether....I am no expert but that is my opinion.
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:42 PM
Delldays - Clearly there are some who are pretty much undoubted. But that element of doubt must be fair across cases, that's what justice is. It's hard to make a case in their defence, of course. Same with people like Hitler - how can you say they deserve to live? Well, perhaps they don't. perhaps if anyone deserves death, they do. I'm just not comfortable with our society playing god, I guess, or lowering ourselves to the level of murderers etc. Perhaps them being kept alive and being made aware of the pain they've caused is a more worthy punishment anyway? It's not an easy issue, as yes, taxpayer money keeps them alive. As it happens, I think they should have to work in prison, but there we go.
St Landrew
29-08-2008, 01:42 PM
Yep, agreed.
GG is a sick bastard, not a pervert.
I take my perversions seriously and am proud of them
Completely agree with Robsk II on this. GG isn't even a sick bastard. He's neither physically unwell [although his heart may be a bit dodgy] and he is not illegitimate as far as I know.
He's a paedophile, and that is unacceptable in our society. Sorry if that's dull too.
Hatch
29-08-2008, 01:45 PM
Capital Punishment does take place in our society.
We shoot Taliban every day.
norwaysaint
29-08-2008, 01:57 PM
Capital Punishment does take place in our society.
We shoot Taliban every day.
Being a taliban is a mental illness and we should be working to help these perverts, not shooting them.
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 01:57 PM
Hear hear.
South City Si
29-08-2008, 01:59 PM
I agree with Robsk. This is beyond criminality and shouldn't be treated as such. It is a sociopathetic mental illness. They should be put in secure mental health clinic if they have gone out/seeked out children.
Murder is a different matter, unless again the are serial killers, then again should be in mental health facility.
These mental illness need to be studying and understood for the future determent and prevention of these actions.
I'm sure even with 'chemical' or physical castration may not stop them harming people or 'cure' them. We find why and how to stop them harming and just stop them without deliving further.
norwaysaint
29-08-2008, 02:02 PM
The big problem with paedophilia is it's a condition that can never be cured or realistically controlled. So how to deal with them long term?
Jillyanne
29-08-2008, 02:14 PM
RobskII - why do you think it took GG until late in his life to commit these crimes?
St Landrew
29-08-2008, 02:14 PM
The big problem with paedophilia is it's a condition that can never be cured or realistically controlled. So how to deal with them long term?
I'm not a fan of electronic tagging of people who have served their punishment, but paedophilia could be a condition where it may be desirable for the protection of children. It doesn't limit the wearer's ability to travel, but it does mean they know they are being monitored. In a sense, it is for their own well-being too.
Hatch
29-08-2008, 02:15 PM
I'm sure even with 'chemical' or physical castration may not stop them harming people or 'cure' them.
It may not stop them, but I bet it deters others.
Robsk II
29-08-2008, 02:26 PM
Saying that Hatch - deterrents haven't proved to be that succesful in many countries. The US is the prime example of this.
Norwaysaint - if need be, to deal with it - have an ongoing process of rehabilitation based aims, with continual evaluation. If they never manage to convince that they are able to control themselves, then hey, keep them locked indefinitely in a situation that is as reasonable as possible - ie away from their potential victims, but with some human rights as much as possible, but also having to work. Again, some form of secure unit commune. If they do come out, then yes, for everyone's benefit, strict monitoring of movements at the very least. Not an easy thing to find a perfect solution.
Jill - hard to say. Maybe he always harboured these feelings, maybe he has in fact offended previously. Perhaps he only behaves this way now because for whatever reason he has lost the ability to make socially appropriate choices. Maybe it's a psychological manifestation of him tryng to hold onto his younger days of groupies and so on, who can say?
Eyes k8
29-08-2008, 08:00 PM
Not targetting saintwarwick specifically, just using it as an example...
Is it only me who really resents the fact that the term 'pervert' has become synonymous with the term 'paedophile'?
They are NOT one and the same. Pretty much everyone is a pervert when it comes down to it. If a perversion, in this context, is a sexual act which is considered taboo or outside of social norms, then hey, some people consider blowjobs to be perverted, tying people up to be perverted, etc - and I'm willing to bet an awful lot that 90% of the sexually active board users have dabbled in things they consider to be somewhat deviant, even if it's low level stuff like furry handcuffs or silk cords round wrists. Hey, a lot of men seem to love the thought of lesbians, or anal, etc etc, and these are perverted things by puritanical standards. So please consider your own proclivities before chucking those who liked a bit of mild s&m in their own home, etc etc, in with the likes of Glitter et al. Predatory sexual practices of these kinds go far beyond a perversion.
Also - what's with the moral-panic ********? I, and most leading experts in the area, consider paedophilia to be basically a mental health issue, something in the chemical and psychological make up of a persons sexuality that has basically gone wrong. Clearly, sometimes society needs to be protected from the more predatory types of people - those with sexual perversions that impact negatively on others. But most of the time, people need help, not shooting. Lock them up if they are a risk, by all means - do what is needed to safeguard the well-being of society. But if we shot everyone with mental health issues, which they can no more help having than a spinal injury related wheelchair user can get up and run around, then we are in a dangerous place and something very uncivilised and unfair. It's ignorance and fear culture that leads to these over zealous, over dramatic reactions. Clearly, no-one wants their children or families or anyone they care about to be impacted on, abused etc, by others. Baying for blood has never helped anyone. Don't say 'what if it happened to you' - of course I'd be outraged. But the fact of the matter is that ridiculous hype based reactions are indicative of no consideration or intellect used to reach a conclusion, and our society should be able to do rather better than that.
Interesting post. I'm not sure most experts would think it is a mental health issue. It's certainly not a diagnosable category. In the past homosexuality and nymphomania were>
saint lard
29-08-2008, 08:13 PM
RobskII - why do you think it took GG until late in his life to commit these crimes?
I don't think you will find he has only acted upon his "fantasies" later on in life.
I'm afraid i cannot elaborate further.
And yes i know i'm not RobskII.
Calvin
30-08-2008, 09:30 PM
I am a pervert.
You ****ing pervert! you stole my line.:o
swastika eyes
30-08-2008, 10:39 PM
Is it wrong to get a stiffy reading this thread ?
st_louis_saint
30-08-2008, 11:06 PM
Is it wrong to get a stiffy reading this thread ?
About as wrong as getting a stiffy watching female corpses hanging from a noose. You sick ****.:wink:
Crouchie's Lawyer
31-08-2008, 10:58 AM
Also - what's with the moral-panic ********? I, and most leading experts in the area, consider paedophilia to be basically a mental health issue, something in the chemical and psychological make up of a persons sexuality that has basically gone wrong.
Is it just me that is completely fed up with the 'This is wrong, why? Oh it must be a mental heath issue' soceity we now live in?
Kids being diagnosed with ADD or ADHD (However you wished to refer to it). So many of the times, the kids are just naughty. No discipline at home which leads to kids pushing the boundries and taking after their lawless parents. But no, its not that, they have an illness dont you know. A small part of their brain not working in the right way. Tank them up with funny pills and call it ADD. Makes everything go away and gives the parents peace of mind and justification as to why their kids are little sh!ts. They then do not have to question their parental skills!
Sexual persuasion towards a child IMO is a choice. No difference to my persuasion of Cadburys chocolate over Galaxy. I like Cadburys for a reason, as do sicko peado's like children. Its not a mental health issue, they are just wrong. So called 'experts' wish to put a chemical imbalance name to it so they can claim they have diagnosed peadophilia and know the 'disease' inside out.
These people are just sick f*cks, they do not have a 'disease' or 'chemical imbalance' which can go to part way justify their actions, they are just wrong! Labelling them mentally ill, is, IMO a disgrace. It tarnishes the real mentally ill to be herded in the same group as Peadophiles!
Crouchie's Lawyer
31-08-2008, 11:13 AM
I agree with Robsk. This is beyond criminality and shouldn't be treated as such. It is a sociopathetic mental illness. They should be put in secure mental health clinic if they have gone out/seeked out children.
Murder is a different matter, unless again the are serial killers, then again should be in mental health facility.
These mental illness need to be studying and understood for the future determent and prevention of these actions.
I'm sure even with 'chemical' or physical castration may not stop them harming people or 'cure' them. We find why and how to stop them harming and just stop them without deliving further.
I like chinese food, should I be chucked in a mental health clinic too?
F*ck it, lets all just be chucked into mental health clinics as im sure we can all make some imaginary mental heath illness up which can justify something which we do which may not be strictly legal, right or common practise.
I sometimes even drive 35mph in a 30mph speed limit. What mental illness do I have? Chuck me in a mental health clinic as it be a mental health problem I have becuase there is no justifiable reason why I do it!
:roll:
Crouchie's Lawyer
31-08-2008, 11:25 AM
I asked why single out perverts, sorry, kiddle fiddlers for "special treatment"...there is a case that they are mentally ill, is it morally correct to throw the book at them? why not help them sure their illness like we do in other walks of life.
Yes im sure there is something we could ween Peado's off of children with like they use Methodone to ween Heroin users off of the drug. We could supply them with 19 year olds who look younger! :roll:
If their preference is towards children, they will never change. They are scum and deserve to be locked up! Its not as if its like my preference to Chinese food. I like it, its not very healthy (some may consider it to be bad) and im sure with will power I could stop eating it. Blokes on here ask yourself, if you were single and a stunning lady walked past you, you would look wouldnt you? And if said lady approached you and started talking to you, flirting a little you would appreciate it, you would even given the chance take things further. Now think how hard it would be to ignore your primal sexual thoughts and go against them? IMO pretty impossible. Peado's are the same but with thoughts about children which IMO means they are never gonna change or be 'cured'!
Crouchie's Lawyer
31-08-2008, 11:26 AM
I once dreamt that I married my fat friend, that was and still is my darkest dream, the next morning I woke up and thought it was real.
How did he feel about it?
(Sorry I had to get the childish comment in as my last 3 have been pretty sensible!)
Deano6
31-08-2008, 11:30 AM
I once dreamt that I married my fat friend, that was and still is my darkest dream, the next morning I woke up and thought it was real.
When I first read this I thought you said you woke up and it was real.
Is it real?
Robsk II
31-08-2008, 12:02 PM
Im no sinner, can you adequately explain why you like one chocolate better? Why it tastes better? I for one simply could not choose to be turned on by kids, so I say it is not a choice at all. If you can choose to be so at a whim, then I am somewhat concerned.
Thorpe-le-Saint
31-08-2008, 01:09 PM
I'm no sinner, you are the only one who has some sort of weird child thing as your avatar...I'm just saying. ;)
saint lard
31-08-2008, 02:11 PM
With reference to my post above,what i was alluding to were many rumours about what happened on his boat whilst in Haslar marina,i felt it unwise to post what the said rumours were,strangely one of the rumours was in the paper yesterday,ok it was only the sun,but the person who told her "story" had banded about what occured a considerable time ago,so this tells me he has been doing what he does for sometime.
EastleighSoulBoy
31-08-2008, 03:41 PM
Is it just me that is completely fed up with the 'This is wrong, why? Oh it must be a mental heath issue' soceity we now live in?
Kids being diagnosed with ADD or ADHD (However you wished to refer to it). So many of the times, the kids are just naughty. No discipline at home which leads to kids pushing the boundries and taking after their lawless parents. But no, its not that, they have an illness dont you know. A small part of their brain not working in the right way. Tank them up with funny pills and call it ADD. Makes everything go away and gives the parents peace of mind and justification as to why their kids are little sh!ts. They then do not have to question their parental skills!
Sexual persuasion towards a child IMO is a choice. No difference to my persuasion of Cadburys chocolate over Galaxy. I like Cadburys for a reason, as do sicko peado's like children. Its not a mental health issue, they are just wrong. So called 'experts' wish to put a chemical imbalance name to it so they can claim they have diagnosed peadophilia and know the 'disease' inside out.
These people are just sick f*cks, they do not have a 'disease' or 'chemical imbalance' which can go to part way justify their actions, they are just wrong! Labelling them mentally ill, is, IMO a disgrace. It tarnishes the real mentally ill to be herded in the same group as Peadophiles!
Tree hugging, liberal leftie that I may have been labelled previously, I can't help but agree with your sentiment. It's a sick choice they make. Once they make that choice they step over the line that all common decency keeps the majority of us behind. I'd really like to know what it is that starts them off down this route.
Crouchie's Lawyer
31-08-2008, 06:26 PM
Im no sinner, can you adequately explain why you like one chocolate better? Why it tastes better? I for one simply could not choose to be turned on by kids, so I say it is not a choice at all. If you can choose to be so at a whim, then I am somewhat concerned.
You are being some what niave Robsk, just because you nor I do not have tendancies toward liking children, doesnt mean that everyone else doesnt either! Hell, I dont really find black women or ladies from Asia that attractive (not racist, just preference) but this doesnt mean that all other men dont!
Its my preferences. These peado's may not have a choice what they like (children or adults) but they sure as hell have a choice in breaking the law and acting out their dirty sick thoughts. You say you simply could not choose to be turned on by kids, this is because your preferences like any normal person lies in adults not kids. But you could choose to abuse a kid (whether your preferences lie in children or adults), this is the difference. They choose to abuse. Its not an illness.
You giving them a 'disease' to hide behind waters down the severity of the sickness of what they are doing! They feel less guilt when they can blame what they have done, are doing, or will do, on an illness which is uncontrolable, like cancer or MS. Then with less guilt comes the thought that it is not that wrong which is why giving them an excuse like 'you have a disease' is wrong.
These people have made a choice, they chose to take advantage of innocent young children. They did not have a gun to their heads telling them they had to do it.
Labelling it a disease or saying they have a mental issue is just a lazy way of finishing the job and shouting 'next' for the next patient to come in to be labelled with another pathetic made up mental illness!
I'm no sinner, you are the only one who has some sort of weird child thing as your avatar...I'm just saying. ;)
Yes, I wanted a trippy .gif file as my avatar and this one was the best. It was this one or a rabbit f*cking a balloon until it pops.
Tree hugging, liberal leftie that I may have been labelled previously, I can't help but agree with your sentiment. It's a sick choice they make. Once they make that choice they step over the line that all common decency keeps the majority of us behind. I'd really like to know what it is that starts them off down this route.
Glad to see someone understands what im trying to say. I feel it may be wasted on a few other people.
Robsk II
31-08-2008, 07:56 PM
I'm not saying it's a conventional illness, and I am also not saying this is an excuse. What I am saying is that it is not a choice in the conventional sense. It is like whether you are gay or not. I am not, and nor could I choose to be so. In fact, I also generally don't find black women attractive, like yourself, but that is not due to racism - I couldn't simply choose to make this different. I totally agree that those that act on it are making some kind of choice, but I would still say this is a result of mental disorders - you might be angry enough, for example, to do something crazy if not constricted by your understanding of social behaviours, morality, etc. If you didn't have those normally, you might act differently, and not actually be able to do otherwise within the context of your own mind. That is what I believe about paedos, too. I still believe some others feel the same way, but don't act. Like I said above, I think offenders are those with pre-existing tendencies combined with psychological disorders. So I am not disagreeing with ESB or anyone, really. Just trying to outline my understanding of it.
swastika eyes
31-08-2008, 10:38 PM
Anyone interested in cam or trading pics ?
Robsk II
03-09-2008, 03:37 PM
This guy:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/wales/mid/7596168.stm
Talk about stereotypes. Look at him! Perhaps they chose a particularly pervy photo, but still. And a vicar! Although he's not catholic, I guess, so that's one flaw in my stereotype suggestion..
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