Stealing another mans girlfriend

[Dave Benson Phillips]

Is it frowned upon?

Is it acceptable if he is not a mate?

Is it unacceptable if he is a mate?

What are your views on the subject?

[Colinjb]

Frown upon it? I certainly would, especially if the guy concerned is a mate. There are some bridges you do not cross and that is one of them.

If there really is something between 'you' (I assume this is about a situation you are currently in, appologies if i'm wrong) and the girl. And if you are not hurting anyone close to you by getting together with her and the prior relationship ending then it is still dodgy, but not terrible.

[RedAndWhite91]

Massive no if it is a mate's girlfriend.

If it isn't a mate's bird then it's fine. Especially if he is a stupid wannabe gangsta with a stupid name. It's more than fine IMO, and fun.

[Dave Benson Phillips]

In my humble opinion the she is fair game if you don't know the bloke, if you know the bloke but not really mates then it depends what he is like, if he is a tit then it's fine.

The only no in my opinion is mates.

[Pancake]

Stealing indicates she isnt willing to be taken.

[dronskisaint]

Stealing indicates she isnt willing to be taken.

+1

Stealing usually denotes removal of property or ideas without the owner's permission.

Try explaining to a girlfriend or wife that she is your property & I think you'll get a fairly graphic answer to your own question!

[EastleighSoulBoy]

How do you deal with the issue of the 'Ex' getting a little too up close and personal with you about it?

Stranger or not.

Would you be happy with a total stranger stealing your girlfriend?

Just thoughts that come from the initial question.

[Hatch]

All women are slags

[Dave Benson Phillips]

All women are slags

Fair comment.

[OldNick]

The only no in my opinion is mates.

so there is no 'No's' then

[Dave Benson Phillips]

so there is no 'No's' then

I have lots of friends. They are all children though, which is why I said no.

[saint_bert]

Massive no no if its a mate.

Massive

[Whitey Grandad]

Out of interest, why do you ask DBP? Is it on behalf of a friend, or do you have something in mind? Perhaps you are thinking about a career in politics?

[mickn]

How do you stand with not stealing her but borrowing her a few times?

[Dave Benson Phillips]

Out of interest, why do you ask DBP? Is it on behalf of a friend, or do you have something in mind? Perhaps you are thinking about a career in politics?

Just something I have always wondered.

[OldNick]

Just something I have always wondered.

or been thinking about doing Lol

[Whitey Grandad]

Just something I have always wondered.

Wash your mind out with soap and water!

[Atticus Finch of Maycomb]

Is it frowned upon?

Is it acceptable if he is not a mate?

Is it unacceptable if he is a mate?

What are your views on the subject?

I find it unlikely that a guy like you, Stu, is ever going to be in the position to have a mate, girlfriend or both.

[Wiltshire Saint]

I think Stu wrote "girlfriend" when he meant to write "dinner"

[Barney Trubble]

As long as I get what i want, then she can **** who she wants. As long as it doesn't affect me getting my sack emptied then I wouldn't be too worried.

If it's a live in partner or married, then the rules of engagement change of course.

[St Marco]

I think if she is married or got kids etc then should be a total no. Don't be a home wrecker as that is just lame.
But if they are not happy in the relationship and the guy is a douche , their not married etc then all is fair in love and war!
But if its a friend then no, you don't want to cross that line!

[Atticus Finch of Maycomb]

I think Stu wrote "girlfriend" when he meant to write "dinner"

still doesn't explain why stu wrote 'mate' in his opening post.

maybe we could just put that down to wishful thinking on stu's part.

[Dave Benson Phillips]

still doesn't explain why stu wrote 'mate' in his opening post.

maybe we could just put that down to wishful thinking on stu's part.

You are still off the mark sonny jim.

Try again.

[Weston Super Saint]

Stealing indicates she isnt willing to be taken.

A bit of duck tape over the mouth, some handcuffs, a few drops of Rhohipnol and nobody will be any the wiser

[Thedelldays]

who cares what she thinks..take what you want

[norwaysaint]

So Dave Benson Phillips is the new name Stupidromseysaint came up with?

Brilliant.

[scotty]

In my humble opinion the she is fair game if you don't know the bloke, if you know the bloke but not really mates then it depends what he is like, if he is a tit then it's fine.

The only no in my opinion is mates.

I would think family was another area off-limits, best not to make a move on your brothers/fathers/uncles/etc bird

[Dave Benson Phillips]

WHat about if your mate goes away for a few months? Is it doing the right thing to service his missus? I mean, after all, women have needs too?

[Thedelldays]

see if you can give it to her in installments stu

[Dave Benson Phillips]

see if you can give it to her in installments stu

You are still wrong. Can we stay on subject please.

[EastleighSoulBoy]

You are still wrong. Can we stay on subject please.

The subject, deserving it's own thread, should be:

DBP is he StanDune or StuRomseyRant in disguise?

Remember your promise to me!

[Hamilton Saint]

If you really mean that, you are very wrong.

[CB Saint]

WHat about if your mate goes away for a few months? Is it doing the right thing to service his missus? I mean, after all, women have needs too?

What like on a submarine?

[Dave Benson Phillips]

What like on a submarine?

Yes, just like that.

[Dave Benson Phillips]

What about if you know the bloke, it is his birthday, and his missus has said that she is working late to get out of seeing him, then starts an argument over nothing, just so she has an excuse to ignore him.

In the meantime she is sat cuddled up with you on your sofa?

Is that wrong?

[JustMike]

flip it around, how would you feel if som bloke, mate or no mate, took your missus?

[JustMike]

What about if you know the bloke, it is his birthday, and his missus has said that she is working late to get out of seeing him, then starts an argument over nothing, just so she has an excuse to ignore him.

In the meantime she is sat cuddled up with you on your sofa?

Is that wrong?

ah, now this is different. She doesnt want him so must be honest and tell him. Then, go for it (once the bed sheets have cooled down though)

[Dave Benson Phillips]

flip it around, how would you feel if som bloke, mate or no mate, took your missus?

They wouldn't, because I am amazing in the sack.

[skintsaint]

I once took another mans man but thats another story.

[Lord Duckhunter]

"Stealing" another mans bird is off limits, but borrowing her is a different matter.

[mack rill]

flip it around, how would you feel if som bloke, mate or no mate, took your missus?

If he promised to keep her i could possibly stretch to paying him a Fiver

[OldNick]

What about if you know the bloke, it is his birthday, and his missus has said that she is working late to get out of seeing him, then starts an argument over nothing, just so she has an excuse to ignore him.

In the meantime she is sat cuddled up with you on your sofa?

Is that wrong?

if she's that much of a cow, tell her to f### off and take him for a drink

[Dave Benson Phillips]

Does anyone have any stories of stealing peoples girlfriends from the weekend?

[Georgie]

I find it unlikely that a guy like you, Stu, is ever going to be in the position to have a mate, girlfriend or both.

he had the chance to have a girlfriend, but turned me down ;-)

[Turkish]

he had the chance to have a girlfriend, but turned me down ;-)

You dont want a fat scruffy **** like that anyway Georgie, not when there is much better around, dont set your standards so low.

[Georgie]

You dont want a fat scruffy **** like that anyway Georgie, not when there is much better around, dont set your standards so low.

Is there, i have yet to find it!

[Dave Benson Phillips]

You dont want a fat scruffy **** like that anyway Georgie, not when there is much better around, dont set your standards so low.

I shall suggest your friendship on Facebook.

No need to thank me.

[Turkish]

I shall suggest your friendship on Facebook.

No need to thank me.

I dont want your cast offs tubby. Sorry Georige, but if this c*** is your standard then in the words of Peter Jones, i'm out.

[Georgie]

I dont want your cast offs tubby. Sorry Georige, but if this c*** is your standard then in the words of Peter Jones, i'm out.

I'm going to stay single because 'I am not ready for a relationship' apparently, then at least I won't get hurt. Ha.
And I'm not a cast off.

[Dave Benson Phillips]

This thread seems to be going slightly off-topic and has the potential to turn into one of the great personal arguments to come out on Saintsweb, worthy of Golden Posts.