Turkish, i sort of agree with you, but there is a fine line.I don't need to tell you that different people react differently" to bawlings out".Some of the best man managers know their players inside-out and know who can take a verbal bashing and get a positive reaction from them, and the players who need a little TLC, with an arm around the shoulder.
I can only speak of my own experience, but i was just 15, still at school and playing for Saints Youth at Brentford in the early 70's in an evening game under the lights.This was my first start and i was nervous.The first half passed off quickly and i came off the pitch reasonably happy with my contribution to a half-time lead.As i sat down to sip my tea, the coach,( i won't mention names as he is still with us, bless him), barked at me "Is that effing ball hot or something, put your effing foot on it, ffs".
I was shocked and embaresed and it completely ruined the whole experience for me.I am sure other players would have handled it better and told him to jog on, but i was a boy thrown into a man's world.
I guess in some ways he did me a favour, because, as people who know me will tell you, by the time i finished playing football and in my day to day life i was no shrinking violet, but i never forgot that experience and knew how to handle the different characters that you come across in life and remembered not everyone needs a bollicking.