The situation hasn't been helped by Hodgson and England allowing medicals etc to take place this weekend and in Miami - the England players should be totally focused on the task in hand.
Lallana is looking like a spoilt child at the moment, it's a shame that his career at Saints is drawing to a close in this way, but from where i see it , it is totally down to him. If he wants to go he should put in a transfer request and give the board a decent amount of time to get all offers together.