What was that you said about self-importance 19c? I don't think you're in any position to question another person's kid's 'moral code'. You may not mean to, but you come across as a stuffy schoolmistress from the 1950s. They call us scummers, we call them skates; they're nicknames that nobody I have ever met takes real offense to, it's not as if the kid hurled a barrage of four-letter words at the woman. Get over it.