saint boggy

anyone with a Welsh accent

8-[ well, don't drive like a tw"t then, and i won't have to do it again!!

i always drive at 15-20 mph (unless on a motorway) when someone behind me is driving like a tw"t ............i love watching them in my rear view mirror getting all arsey .......it is very empowering, you should try it !!!

poshie, i imagine you would have probably already thought of this, but is there any way that you could re-mortgage your house in order to pay off the debts owed to the receiver? i realise that it would make it more of a struggle to make ends meet, but at least you would be in your own home, rather than paying extortionate amounts of money to rent somewhere......:smt102

Doc Cox (That's Life) Doctor Hannibal Lechter (sp).

Doctor McCoy

i want a pair of those!!!!!!! and if it wasn't for the fact that i'm 35 , i would buy some........

i think you may have meant that post for Poshie72, not me and yeh, i too feel desparately sorry for her. her ex obviously needs someone to have a little ahem,'chat' with him,eh!!! and, unfortunately Poshie isn't the exception to the rule my sister-in-law split from her husband 15 years ago when their son was just 2. he would promise their son that he would come n visit him each and every sunday, 90% of the time he wouldn't show, leaving their son distraught and in flood of tears,wondering why his daddy didn't love him enough to come and see him. he paid her very little ,if any, maintainance.eventually the house was re-possessed and she and her son had to live in temporary accomodation whilst waiting for a council flat to become available. after 6 months, they got a flat in thornhill .she spent the next 8-9 years penny-pinching (in the extreme) ,whilst her ex husband had f*ked off to live in Australia with his new wife and new son, in their house with a swimming pool and his boat. my sister-in law could barely afford the money to fill up the bath for her son, while he was over in Oz living the life of riley!!! and not once sending her ANY money to help look after him.......my nephew is now 17 and has been in touch with his dad for about 5 years or so, via the internet. his dad came over in May for my nephews birthday, bringing his new family with him.......and do ya know what the tw"t had the audacity to do????????..........he handed my sister-in-law 50 quid, and when she asked him what that was for, he turned round and said..................' to go towards looking after our son' !!!!!!!!!!!! how she never decked him , i don't know!!!!!!!! so you see, women getting the rough end of the deal isn't all that unusual, it's just that we don't have a campaign group to highlight the problem.......

how about a stew?? brown off some cheap cuts of meat in the frying pan....(stewing steak or cheap chicken fillets) then just chop up loads loads of different veg: parsnip,swede,carrots,leaks,onions,potatoes, n chuck 'em all in a big stewpot with a couple of oxo's, some gravy,bit of mustard and anything else that takes ya fancy . i always like to leave mine to mature for at least a day , to tenderise the meat, and serve it with some yummy crusty bread......MMMMMMMM......you will get a good 3-4 meals out of that, and shouldn't cost you more than about 4 quid .

doctor beat?

absolutely............i ,not for one second, ever thought i would be raising children on my own, and am devastated for my kids that they will grow up not being able to go on family holidays with their mum and dad, and for days out,pub lunches and so on.......for this, i will never forgive my ex, but i will also never allow it to cloud my judgement as to when/how/where he sees the children.

well, by the way you waded in with your sweeping generalisations, you did come across as a young man with a lot to say, but no vocabulary or desire to have a civilised discussion. i don't know if you read the other posts in this thread, but they are mostly very heartfelt,poignant accounts of our own experiences of relationship breakdowns.......not really the time or place to come in like a bull in a china shop, spouting on about what a bunch of w*nkers the government are blah,blah, blah....you sounded like a foul-mouthed student protester.......i'm sorry, i'm not saying that is what you are, but that is how it came across.:smt102 if you had read the other posts on this thread you would've realised that this is not the direction that this thread was going in. (and before you say it, yes, i am aware that this is a forum where people can voice their opinions........ but that also means that i too can voice my reaction just a freely)... and if you think I'M on my high horse, maybe you should read your first post again in relation to the other posts on this thread, and ask yourself if it's not YOU , that is coming across that way..

i only wish i were............tis a sad reflection of our ridiculously over-PC society............. http://www.amazon.co.uk/s/ref=nb_ss_w_h_/276-8027600-9255034?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=golly&x=11&y=16

tbh,i have lost interest in pretty much all football, be-it international,prem or CCC ever since Saints got relegated. have only watched MOTD once since we went down, and that was only because it was an FA cup weekend, so we were on there.......i just can't be @rsed with it all.....it doesn't stir up any emotion in me, i suppose............

i don't think the dolls themselves are banned, just the use of the name gollywog............it's just 'golly' or 'golly doll' now..........:smt011

no, don't!!! that's half the charm with our old toys............that they look well loved

i hope to God that you are not ensinuating that all louts are from broken families , and rarely see their fathers!!! troublemakers come from homes where the parents are still together,ya know!!! i'm assuming that you are fairly young, as your post shows a great deal of immaturity. just for the record tho, if your friends had sat down calmly and discussed their children's future, rather than going thru the courts then i'm sure they could've worked out something .........and seeing your kids once every 2 weeks is a disgrace. children need more contact with their parents than that......if the mother had any shread of sense then she would realise this and allow the father better access,no matter what the court said.......at the end of the day the children suffer as much, if not more , than the ex-partner.. mind you, like i said in my previous post, truth is relative to your perspective.......if ,say, she had gone with the 'every weekend' access agreement, then i'm sure the father would be b1tching about how his ex gets EVERY weekend to herself, whilst he works all week and never gets a break!......:smt102.... men are from mars etc,etc.......

and so he should!! i'm sorry, if that comes across as chauvanistic, but they both knowingly conceived the child/ren, with the intent of providing everything that a child needs to be happy and healthy. so, just because the parents (or in my case, the father) decided that wasn't what they wanted anymore, the child should then be thrust into a downward spiral of financial and emotional turmoil??? as in POSHIE72 's case?? i don't think so!!!! my outgoings every month are £650,(this is only my Direct Debits, not inc food,petrol,car tax,school expenses etc. my ex pays me £250. that's only a third of the cost of raising OUR children. if he was living at home with us, he would be paying for ALL of those expenses, and we would have plenty of money left over at the end of the month to pay for luxuries. my mortgage, is luckily fairly small compared to some people i know, so i can manage to pay it , so long as my ex pays the agreed amount every month, which i'm sure he will. so my children have that stability, but it is when that stability is threatened that (some) women will become what men see as vindictive.......obviously there are some women who are the exception to that rule, and are just b1tches from the word go, but then again there are plenty of men out there that think that once they no longer live in the same house as their child , that their financial and emotional responsibility to that child ends too!!!!!! this is f*cking disgusting, and is what REALLY p1sses me off about some women!!!!

i have to agree, however, don't feel bad...... my eldest son's bear is called Bear and my youngest son's bear is called..............Bear!! :cool:

Barfy, your fluffy one is very much like my little puddy tat that i had to have put to sleep last year this is him.......Peanut

i have a few of my favourite cuddly toys from my childhood, up in my loft they are; mummy n baby polar bears called polo and minty large leopard called larry rabbit called thumper small rabbit called oscar donkey called donna (named after my cousin, whom i disliked at the time!!!)

it's amazing how they can instantaneously put the prices up to at the pump in relation to the rise in oil prices , and yet it takes them 14 days (and counting) to drop it in relation to the fall!!!..... these companies were making billions when oil prices were at their highest!!!..........it boggles the mind how much they must be making now!!!!! w**kers :mad:

he took 3 atempts, but got there in the end!!! i am impressed!!!.........

although took a trip to Santiago de Compostela from here). that's where this famous 'cat burglar' came from!!!! Jeez, ive obviously watched Shrek 2 too many times!!!!

lol.......i knew someone would think what i think you're thinking INS!! LOL unfortunately it's nothing anywhere near as interesting as that!!! (altho, if times get hard in years to come, i may give it a go!! ):smt037