Liquidshokk

Not so much therapy just a chance to discuss certain negative aspects of life and gain an understanding of how common these aspects are. Prob not the best place for it I guess so lesson learnt. I have no axe to grind with anyone either but those who like to bully people on here clearly take every opportunity to.

No need Turkish. It's not big and clever.

Dan, have you ever spoke to a mortgage advisor about your situation? I keep being told to by people but I never have because I'm convinced nothing can be done. What advice have you been given if any?

Mods, this destroyed thread can be closed (and deleted if poss) I won't try to start a discussion outside of the usual again. Cheers Jonny, don't ever abandone this site. This site needs people like you to ensure all these WUMs don't completely destroy it.

Hehe, replace was with wasn't. Oops.

Well done for coming across equally as much of a kn0b as I have unappropriately have. Bet you're no looker and you rely on orange text to make up for the lack of attractiveness of your face.

I really couldn't have cared less who "got in first" we'd only seen each other about a dozen times so wasn't exactly a relationship. I was merely pointing out that it wasn't going anywhere. Which she agreed. Shouldn't have to explain such things. Get off my case guys.

No. HTH

I was trying out online dating for a while. I wasN'T bowled over by her looks but I'm not that shallow that I was going to try and make it work, it didn't so I made sure I wasn't leading her on. If that's desperate(?) then so be it.

What can I say, it wasn't going anywhere so I said what needed to be said. Fwiw she agreed, it just happened to be brought to the surface by me, admittedly.

Lol. I didnt actually fancy her and I take pride in the fact I'm no male sl@g so wouldn't take advantage for the hell of it. (bet you would and that makes you more of a man) I don't need help in denial. I did actually finish with this one but no problem in admitting girls have called it off in the past too. But you'll still tar me with your brush again and claim im lieing. (why would someone bother lieing on a forum?!?)

You could have saved yourself from all that typing by first asking who dumped who. I finished with her because we were better suited as friends, hence remaining in contact. But otherwise you would be spot on I'm sure (well, apart from also assuming my lodger is male)

Hmmm, yeah and my mate just told me that he was able to edit our flat on the site which bumped the value up by 15k!! Unreliable indeed. Think you'll be alright.

Ha, that explains some of your past more random posts

I certainly wouldn't be complaining in his position. He doesn't have a condition unless arrogantly thinking your better than saints is a condition.

After you. Already explained that the negativity on here was to generate deep discussion and that it's not a direct representation of me as a person in real life.

It was a particularly disappointing new years eve and I'd got back to my room and posted that after a quick browse on here. Admittedly don't know what possessed me to write it at the time but I think the alcohol randomly brought out the negativity. It's not unheard of. Those that know me would be pretty surprised by how I am perceived on here and I know full well that's my fault. Whoops! Life goes on (that is a good thing btw)

Says you and your gay orange text.

Totally agree with all that. If I knew what I know now then I never would have gone through with it but being my first home I was caught up in the excitement. Sounds like you are actually in a really good position and with the property being under 100k it should easily sell you'd think. Have you checked Zoopla to see how much it thinks it's worth?

Haha. Seriously, you are so unaware of your own faults. Ive never been after sympathy in any of my threads despite what you think. I just felt they were worthy of discussion. I don't believe all your spill about OCD etc being a load of cr@p. Unless you have experienced something you can't possibly understand. As for me being a tit, we obviously have more in common than you think then.

You are assuming that because I post such questions on line that I'm like that in person! You'd be surprised!! If anything it's just too easy to discuss the little things that irritate me in life on a forum where I am anonymous...Especially after drinking copious amounts of alcohol in such cases as NY eve and last night ;-) These things aren't things that dominate my life, just things to discuss so I'm not actually as depressing as you have concluded

Thanks Jonny, knew I wouldn't be the only one in such situations and that it wasn't too much to ask for a sensible response. I get texts from these sorts of friends all the time about meeting up, often weeks apart. I put it to the back of my mind that I must meet up with them but it often gets forgotten about and doesn't happen for ages but when I do meet up with them it's just very obvious very quickly why I don't feel compelled to meet them a lot. Not like I can afford to be fussy but I shouldnt feel compelled to meet these people I guess.

Are you thinking of renting then or moving abroad? Just nice to have those options I guess. Are you at risk of things going tits up with your mortgage then or just want the freedom?

My sides were splitting too. Genius.........

All I'd say is don't bother with a mortgage. Never felt so tied down but that may be just because of the bad deal we're in. Oops, that's not TOO negative is it?? Wouldn't want it to be referred to over and over and over and over again throughout the site....