I was there also, having by then been a Saints' suppporter for 14 years. Lawrie took over when the team was doing well but when we needed to shore up the defence he bought Peter Osgood, and down we went. But it was the manager and the players who took us down, although they redeemed themselves when they won the cup 2 years later.
In the same way, it was the players drawing too many games in 2004/05 that caused relegation, not the chairman. The constant blaming of the chairman in the last four years has been totally ridiculous, but because Sturrock left, Wigley failed and was sacked, and Redknapp couldn't improve things enough, there was no one except the chairman for the more neandrathal faction to blame. Football fans expect simple solutions, and some don't understand that the world is not that simple. We see the same names on here opposing anything that Lowe is connected with, and for them, the anti-Lowe stuff has become an obsession. John B is quite right that what is needed is for people to bury the past and get on with supporting the club. This means not just supporting the 11 players representing the club in any one week, but supporting the whole club. Wholehearted support for the club from the fans is the bit we can do to help the team perform to their maximum potential.