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As NC has taken much time and trouble to state, if its not on the OS don't believe a word. (:

What goes around comes around. Disband the Trust and get used to not being some kind of trumpted up minor celeb (in his own mind perhaps) without a mandate.

I've got the Insignia 2.0 diesel 160bhp with satnav. Great car - no complaints.

I sympathise with you - sounds like your situation was not as straight-forward as mine, although like I said it pays to act quickly. It doesn't take long for the lines of demarkation to be drawn up and as any dedicated estranged Dad will know, it's the woman who has the trump hand. And almost every estranged Dad I've talked to has experienced some form of emotional torture from the ex-wife playing the kids against him. This alone should be made a criminal offence in my opinion - it's truly disgusting. Keep it together SOG - if they're anything like mine, your kids will respect you for it one day f'sure.

This.

Sorry - meant on squad news - what with Lallana probably not featuring, new faces etc.

That's not good news for Adam or Saints. Knee injuries tend to be significant and will require careful treatment or permanent damage can occur which would be terrible for a young guy like Adam. I wish him all the best in his recovery and will keep everything crossed that it's a full one. ):

It's 23:23 and no word on the OS. Must be bull. (:

Update anyone?

Wow, there's a lot of common issues here - incredible that so many suffer the same misfortune when it comes to care of their children in particular, however this I am sure is the tip of the iceburg. It is true to say that many men will not speak out about the problem because they are too embarrassed to talk about the subject, particularly if the situation has come about from their partner having an affair (more and more common nowadays and a subject in its own right). I was 'fortunate' as my ex-wife had an affair - that's never been easy to disclose, however it gave me 'leverage'. I did what many guys in that situation fail to do - I kept my calm and kept my own council. When I found out I started putting things in place - manipulating the situation to ensure that I would not lose out. The first step was to ensure I had financial control of MY finances. I politely made sure that it was understood that I would not 'go away quietly' (i.e. give up my claim to the house, it's contents and indeed custody of the kids) unless certain conditions were observed. I drew up a Seperation Agreement which we both signed and which was witnessed by a Solicitor. I made sure all of this was done at no expense to myself. My maintenance payments were agreed and set in stone - how? - because they were linked with every other condition of the Seperation Agreement, including issues that were beneficial to her (e.g. giving up any rights to her private pension). Indeed when two of my kids came to live with me, the Seperation Agreement included the provision for a reduction of my payments to her. Needless to say, I have continued to support my children way beyond the requirements of the Seperation Agreement (still have one at Uni), however I have remained in control throughout without a sniff from the CSA. Unfortunately, the whole system is set-up to work against responsible Dads. So you need to be supercool and make sure you think things through logically - act as swiftly as possible - don't let issues drag on and fester because they'll not get any easier to sort out. There's so much advice to give to younger guys but would start with, (a) don't create a child unless you are 110% sure you are prepared to stand by it at all costs - i.e. take full responsibility for birth control (b) if you have one or more kids don't play away from home - it could cost you more than you think, © keep your cool - try at all costs to work things out with the ex without having to involve a Solicitor because there's only one person who will benefit from that game, (d) try not to blame yourself for not getting access to the kids - one day they will find out the truth (i.e. you're the good guy) and you'll be vindicated IF and only IF you've not done anything stupid. Good luck SOG and all others currently going through the trauma...

Pulis would struggle to get into the ladies side. FACT.

Strange. I didn't think Lallana was that delicate - the start of the season is still a way off, so to say he will not feature is quite some statement. Hope he recovers well.

Strange isn't it - a quite original theme to a thread and it has almost entirely transformed into an 'Alpine slagging moment', thanks largely to Alpine. After reading through that diatribe I can't find the enthusiasm to respond to the OP. Probably why many don't bother posting here anymore.

Jubilant!

We paid £1m for Lambert and £250k for Barnard I think. So £700k for an established CCC level striker at his age I think is about right. Do the deal - he will get better in our team also IMO.

Benjani is not the type of player AP would sign IMO so I don't believe that one. Tyson is a possibility, although like Pilchards I cannot see him coming here to warm the bench. He might be a good alternative to Lambo and might strike up a great partnership with Connolly or Barnie, but frankly I would be concerned with upsetting the status quo. Having said that, competition is not a bad thing even for the likes of Lambo who might find himself having a bit of a slow season.

What we couldn't see was the huge giggle AP had when he mentioned Pulis' name.

Greatest hope for this season?- That Pulis never gets near the 1st team Biggest fear?- That Pulis does get near the 1st team i.e. on the bench Most important player?- Not Pulis Terrace favourite?- "F*ck off Pulis you piece of garbage" Keep an eye out for...- Pulis signing for a non-league club Player you'd happily drive to his next club?- Errr....Pulis? One change you'd make at your club?- Any teamsheet that has the name Pulis on it. Have we got the right manager?- Absolutely What advice would you give him?- Sell Pulis as soon as possible and in the meantime, send him to the Staplewood groundsmans store for a 'long weight'. Which team do you most want to beat this season?- Plymouth in the 1st game (a) to get the season underway and (b) to dispell the myth that we never win the 1st game Opposition player you despise?- Anyone who chops down one of ours Opposition player you secretly admire?- The one that disables Pulis while he is sat on the bench and for the rest of the season. Where will we finish?- 2nd...or 1st if we get a couple more quality players in.

Football as a whole will not be the same without the genius that is Pulis. It will in fact be somewhat more....better. A lot better.

We will amass 93 points this coming season. HTH.

Not just feasible - highly likely I would say.

There would be no problem with Murty coming back on a PAYPlay deal if he gets fit again. He was a good RB for us and could do a good job of cover for the next few months actually.

Spot on the money there - very good! (:

Must admit, this time I was a bit shocked at how long it took for the news to filter through to us. The info though sounded like it had come from a privelaged source prior to his hospital treatment and therefore perhaps Saints were waiting until after that event?

Not sure why there's a need for a duplicate thread TBH... http://www.saintsweb.co.uk/showthread.php?23818-Frazer-Richardson/page1 Merge 'em Mods?