So if one person says it then it speaks for the community?
I actually do know a trans person and bit like hypos points doesn’t always want to lumped in a group. He is actually fine with me and others ‘dead-naming’ him too as understands people wont easily adjust to a new name.
I really admired his courage as the natural lads instinct is to joke but he got that too. Although he got far more respect than mocking. You can’t get sanctimonious about attitudes and takes time to become accepted.