KRG was right when he said it's not so much that women get to be Indignation that we object to, it's just that we want our share! I would be ok with ppl trying to shame on me for, say, erm, holding door open for sexy bird, or politely commenting on the size of her boobs, if i.e. when bird tells me i.e. to stop leaving food out for the mouse we've got living in our wallspaces, and to "Man Up" and get mouse murder trap, then I could turn round and tell her to stop prejudice man-shaming me for caring bout mices