I'm not sure how I can be any more encouraging. I even offer out my mobile number to anyone wanting to come but nervous to do so on their own.
I must be the person at highest risk of being stalked or murdered that the Internet has ever seen...
I just didn't like one thread dedicated to what I look like. You've got to be smarter about these things, Lighthouse. A more generic thread about what everyone looks like is more acceptable.
Lighthouse I imagine as being tall, well lit, and likes standing on cliff edges.
Hypo : short, glasses, ill fitting suit
Bearsy: tall, curly hair and beard,
Sad old git: small, good head of grey hair, beer belly
Cat: wears a hat and skinny jeans
Bridge too far: Helen Mirren.