I feel confident to have those conversations, because I know I'm not on any level whatsoever, the angry, man hating, ballbreaker feminist, that guys still seem to associate with 'feminism'. It's just not in me to think like that. Same as I feel confident to put a message out on an internet forum asking if anyone wants to meet for a drink, without worrying about people thinking I'm unpopular, because I'm pretty confident about my popularity in the first place.
If that makes sense.