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Haven't you read the 'help Bearsy' thread?! I've been demonised!

How about we all apologise to each other! That would be the adult thing to do. I'm not sure what I'd be apologising for, but I can make something up.

I think we need an amnesty. This all makes me feel very sad

Lol. I'm actually quite p*ssed off! Just trying to make light of it!

Well if no one wants to join me, I may as well get comfortable, put the porn on, and enjoy myself on my own!

From this: To this: And this: All in 24 hours!

I don't like that other thread anymore, so am starting a new one. Might be quiet - not sure if any people left who haven't got me on ignore! But did you see this? http://www.buzzfeed.com/ryanhatesthis/find-dancing-man#.he9Rwbz36 I thought it was really sweet!

I'm going to seek some hugs from Alpine, Barry, Dune and Glasgow. I'm feeling all lonesome at the moment! Troll solidarity!

More like too late! I called on you guys, and you didn't come. I'll never rely on your Muppet services again.

Smack down, called a troll, and on ignore It's good though...teaching me to toughen up. Important life lesson! Still feel a bit sad though.

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Would it help if we spent the next two days debating the definition of "BANTER AND LIGHT HEARTED CHAT" ??! Seriously Jeff, I'm done. I don't mean to be rude, but my points have been made, I have nothing left to contribute.

"THIS FORUM IS FOR BANTER AND LIGHT HEARTED CHAT" Where are the Mods when you need em?!

This is wasted genius until a Chelsea fan reads it and takes it seriously ! Someone make this happen! :thumbup: PS. Not me, I'm too scared.

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Bearsy, you're allowing this thread to be taken over! Where's the jokes?! Where's Bletch, and Tokyo?! How can you sit idly by, when TMS is being taken over by SERIOUS discussion? It's not on!

LOL! Oh, that's OK Sue! I'll happily stand my ground on anything if I think it's imporant, but it great we've got so many male feminists on here too. Really inspiring actually. I'm older than I sometimes seem as well, so you might not be much older than me, if at all! Unbelievable Jeff and Hypo have an amazing way of not getting a point, throwing something completely different at you to validate their argument, and then insist repeatedly for a response. It's a clever tactic completely devoid of any logic. Although I suspect if I tried using it, I'd be accused of being a typical woman But I do think important to discuss these things, even if it results in banging head against a wall. It's very rare people change their views overnight. And the more discussion, opinions, others perspectives openly discussed about sexism in football, the more people will slowly start understanding, and then potentially change their views. And when I say people I mean it - women too, not just men. I think it's important I express my views or experiences in a football forum I'm a part of, because I'm a female who likes football. If I don't say it, who will?

LOL!

I laughed! Though, not out loud (well, it was more of a more of a half smile, really.) OK, I didn't laugh.

K I'd LOVE an International Happiness Day thread! Please do start one on the 20th!

Okay, you're forgiven.

Oh f*ck me, I'm going to let you bait me good and proper here, Jeff. But after this, I'm done. 100%. Don't ask me follow up questions to this. Just think a little, and try and see the world from a different perspective than you're used to. I don't find porn, at its most purest level inherently offensive, because I'm not offended by sex or the need for people to have sexual fantasies. I think that's perfectly normal and healthy. I think some of the modern versions of porn are more problematic. Especially when they are demeaning to women, and are a particularly bad influence on young boys, and how they behave towards young girls. But that's another matter. But porn, at its most basic level, and in private, is relatively harmless, IMO. Other may disagree. I think there's a debate to be had, but not with me, on here. What I don't like about the some of the sexist behaviour we've been discussing is it isn't harmless. There's a person it's being aimed at and that is affected by the behaviour. That's the big difference you don't seem to understand. I have a pretty damn consistent view on this across all the threads I comment on. Sex = good. Humiliating someone, shaming them, belittling them, embarrassing them, controlling them, hurting them = bad. It's really as simple as that. And no, I'm not looking to hook up with anyone on here, in case anyone else is thinking it. Thanks.

Oh Jonnyboy

Believe me, I'm not looking for dates.

Noooo, don't follow me into here! This was my sanctuary from your sterile, static, wooden views on a complex, sophisticated topic. It was doing my head in! But seriously Jeff, I don't want **** you off, but our brains work very differently, and there's really no point us debating this anymore. Really. I was on the verge earlier of accusing you of trolling, but I can see that's not the case anymore. So let's just leave it at that.