Does tolerance = more crime, violence, teenage pregnancy etc etc? What is your point?
My relationship with God is personal to me. I do have a faith but a faith that I question. I see that as healthy and why I am comfortable with believing that religion and faith need to progress with society. My faith is not a set or rules but a set of values.
As you brought it up, last Christmas and the previous four christmas' I have volunteered at a local soup kitchen which is run by a multi faith organisation. I hope to do the same again this year. I have no need to "work" this Easter, last Easter I disappeared to Munich for the weekend and thoroughly enjoyed my time there.