Wasted post IMO - see your / you're / ur other two for how it should be done on the Muppet.
No offence INS, having been through what you are going through I know where you are at. The signals don't seem good. You are in a decent position, I was 5 years older than you are now when the shet hit the fan. It really opened my eyes and I grabbed singledom with both hands (fnarr fnarr) and enjoyed it.
Best thing you can do is reflect upon what you've have had and what you now see as important in "the" relationship in your future and don't settle for second best. Most of all enjoy the hunt!