I always struggle why people think racism is binary “ they are a racist” “i’m not a racist”. None of us are above having prejudices of some sort and some may be making generalisations that maybe ill informed but not necessarily racist. They don’t necessarily define you and clearly some people are far more racist than others but seems such a sensitive area now that some seem terrified of acknowledging anything. Wondering what colour a mixed race baby might be is frankly a normal question not a racist opinion.