hypochondriac

I find that an odd way to look at it. We certainly aren't doing anything tacky or overly expensive. It's about making a public declaration of our love and a commitment to each other with all our friends and family. Personally I'm looking forward to it. Presuming you are single, maybe you will feel differently when you meet "the one."

You say that, but my experience is that the vast majority of women want to get married. As soon as they see their friends getting hitched then most of them want to see the same commitment from their partner.

I can sort of understand it if your wife is an only child - family name and all that. Otherwise I would be inclined to agree with you.

Thank God that isn't the case. I love how young Andy speaks for all young liberals.

I don't really like that the reason this topic exists is because it was brought up on pompey online. I feel like I'm in a parallel universe.

Yeah good point ha I didn't think that one through...

Well technically her surname is weird because it is the first name of her father (its an Arab thing.) it's would be the equivalent of my surname being something like Ben or William!

Glad to see some people feel as strongly about it as I do. My fiancee isn't bothered either way but to me it feels like a lack of commitment if we don't share the same surname.

Not really your concern anymore. Bit weird though isn't it?

I agree about double barrelled. Sounds terrible and makes them seem like a joke. My future father in law wants double barrelled but he has a son so it's not like his surname is going to die. I'm looking into making it a middle name as a compromise.

McCarthy.

What are people's thoughts on this? Are you not bothered? Is it something that is important to you? What is your thoughts on a double barreled surname?

It's something to do with Micah and money which he says didn't go to him but was paid to someone. Then his marriage broke down and the money disappeared and this transaction was supposedly covered up by higher ups in the Trust hierarchy. All very smalltime.

How many minutes did Shaw have before he became first choice?

Why is it a step back? I would trust the judgement of our staff tbh considering their excellent record at judging ability.

Wow what a shock! McCarthy starts for the U21s at right back. Who would have thunk it.

Is the correct answer. Big money is not 15 million to me. I'll be thinking more 25.

Not sure why the fans haven't turned on the players more. Totally gutless, don't work hard enough and have survived a succession of decent managers.

Not sure. The quote was" big money" so don't have details. My guess is more than 15 though.

He is going for big money in the summer.

he wasn't at fault for anything yesterday.

Like the club hadn't agreed to sell Shaw yes?

Nope. He is going up north for big money.

We will see.

Clyne is leaving. Huge fee agreed and McCarthy has been informed he will be viewed as first choice next season. Fact.