I will not be joining in with the song. My Unkle did the same as Speed, and was a lovely bloke, family man, nice wife and kids, quite a good job, and I no one joined in at SMS when I started singing there is only one Unkle Mike! My Unkle did it because he just found out he had cancer, and thought that was it rather than fight it...... The people it hurts is unreal.