I used to be all doom and gloom. Expecting the worst at every turn and lamenting every seemingly negative thing that happened to Saints. However, this negativity would often be misplaced and I'd be wrong a lot. The negativity would also ruin my day and sometimes ruin the days of people close to me. I found it spilling into other aspects of my life and I found I was not the person I wanted to be and who people wanted to be with.
In the end it seemed pointless to get so upset and negative about stuff the either a) didn't end up happening or b) happened and there was nothing I could do about it anyway.
I changed to a more positive outlook and it helped me in other aspects of my life such as my performance in sports (football, running, golf etc.) and at work (better productivity, more ideas, promotions etc.).
I truly understand where the "bed-wetters" are coming from because I was one. What I don't understand and what I think the forum could do with out are those that obviously support Saints but get their kicks out of winding up others. Those that post the same thing year in year out, those that cherrypick and massage data to try and stir up trouble, those that cheer when we lose and those that mock others. We know who they are, they know who they are, ignoring them is the best ploy but not easy when the team aren't performing well and getting wins.
Discussion is great as is respecting others with opposing viewpoints but some of the troll posts right after a team sheet has been announced or a goal gone in against us or a mistake made are unacceptable.