Sorry to hear Baj, not good for anyone especially the children. Assuming your in the Southampton area try Footners (Romsey), specifically Peter McVean, I've used him a number of times for various things & is thorough.
When it comes to renting your house out which is all very well and rents are doing very well ( I'm a landlord ), you still have to live/rent somewhere and rents have gone up across the board, unless you down size or move to a less desirable area.
At the end of the day the 2 possibly 3 grown men couldn't see eye to eye, it's happened to all of us at some point, some more than others. You will always tread on toes on the way to the top.
Sunnyfields near Totton for me, great organic local foods & no more expensive than anywhere else. The best meats etc around by far.
Also sell beers cleaning products and anything else you need.