I hate this nonsense about him "destroying us" - do me a favour. He loves us and at the time was backing something he thought would stop us not existing. I'm sure in hindsight he knows he was wrong, but destroyed us? The mind boggles..
Perhaps he genuinely still wants us to do well? Why wouldn't he? He might have left but I'm sure he would't want to see his hard work go down the swanny.
I think it's safe to say she doesn;t really care much for SFC or football in general, this was the venture of her Dad. Do you REALLY think she'd mind if Shaw and Lallana left?