I know far more blokes who don't 'wear the trousers' in the relationship than do.
Some seem pathetic and are so accommodating for fear of upsetting their missus. Rarely ends well either, as women want men to be ' a man' ie take control, be assertive, decisive etc. and ultimately they don't respect the bloke who will sacrifice his football for a B and Q trip.. Being desperate to please is unattractive IMO