Just do what I did.
Look at the fixtures nice and early and says to the missus "Shall we have our valentines day the weekend before? That way we avoid the rush and can make a day of it"
Makes it look like you're taking her feeling into account too by adding the "make a day of it". Result is a decent meal, a guaranteed blow job and not having to miss the biggest game of the season so far.
Easy!
Can't imagine missing this game for f***ing valentines day ffs!!