None of the sense you make matters as none of your points will actually be considered or answered. They will be deflected by vague, general accusations of stalking, obsessiveness and narrow-mindedness. That fact that you didn't use insults or resort to name calling won't matter. You will be labelled as part of the 'other' group, and as such dismissed out of hand with defensive, self-righteous hand wringing.
It's admirable that you try though.