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serious question..

 

some demand everything..some demand the owners bow to them...some demand knowing what pardew is doing...some have already decided adkins is a failure (before last night)...some want to sling ****e about the chairman..

 

why do we do this to ourselves..?

 

whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy:lol:

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serious question..

 

some demand everything..some demand the owners bow to them...some demand knowing what pardew is doing...some have already decided adkins is a failure (before last night)...some want to sling ****e about the chairman..

why do we do this to ourselves..?

whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy:lol:

 

 

I wouldn't say " wrong," but the mindset of our fan base now is (obviously) different to what we had several decades ago.

Before our " successes " under Lawrie Mac , there was only the occasional FA Cup run and the 1966 promotion to brag about.

Fans occasionally criticised players but rarely the managers ..especially as we had only TWO in a 31 year period..but then

after 27 seasons (albeit including some very poor ones) came relegation TWICE, and it is just too much for some to bear.

Those good seasons were good because we had built a stable team system under stable managemant both on the touchline ..and in the Boardroom. Nowadays everything is based on the last result and people panic when things go adrift.

SFC is now (roughly) in the same position they were ..this time last season... and in the first season I watched them ...1958/59

 

Perhaps I have learned to be...philosophical, but that is something that comes with age and I don't think that EVERY question has a black/white answer. Are the fans wrong?........not necessarily, but many live only for the next match and lack PATIENCE.

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It is bizarre but to be honest I don't think we as Saints fans are alone - I think football fans in general have become less and less patient. There's an indirect link (IMO) mentally with the amount of money players are paid to how they should perform, and as a result people are much less forgiving now when things go wrong.

 

You could possibly argue that football in general has only got itself to blame as there's very little that fans now have in common with players, but other than that I just think there's a massive load of people with chips on their shoulders who think they're owed something and football seems to be a way of venting their frustration.

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It's the world we live in now - the internet has given us access to any information we want

When we are starved of info, we get angry, suspicious & demand change

 

I often think we would never have won the FA Cup had the internet been around back then!

 

Just imagine how the fans on here would have treated Lawrie Mac between 74-76, with relegation followed by a poor season the next season

I'd be interested to know from supporters who remember those days what the perception of Lawrie was before we lifted the cup

We would have hounded the guy out of The Dell

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It's the world we live in now - the internet has given us access to any information we want

When we are starved of info, we get angry, suspicious & demand change

 

I often think we would never have won the FA Cup had the internet been around back then!

 

Just imagine how the fans on here would have treated Lawrie Mac between 74-76, with relegation followed by a poor season the next season

I'd be interested to know from supporters who remember those days what the perception of Lawrie was before we lifted the cup

We would have hounded the guy out of The Dell

 

I threw a beer can at Lawrie from the Milton - it only just missed!

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serious question..

 

some demand everything..some demand the owners bow to them...some demand knowing what pardew is doing...some have already decided adkins is a failure (before last night)...some want to sling ****e about the chairman..

 

why do we do this to ourselves..?

 

whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy:lol:

 

All football fans are like this. Just go on a few football forums. Every club has happy clappers and wrist slitters. Those the hate the manager those that don't etc we're not special just normal football fans.

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serious question..

 

some demand everything..some demand the owners bow to them...some demand knowing what pardew is doing...some have already decided adkins is a failure (before last night)...some want to sling ****e about the chairman..

 

why do we do this to ourselves..?

 

whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy:lol:

 

 

Well to start with ignore a fair percentage of posts on here as being Saints/Skates/Cherries WUM.

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some demand everything..some demand the owners bow to them...some demand knowing what pardew is doing...some have already decided adkins is a failure (before last night)...some want to sling ****e about the chairman..

why do we do this to ourselves..?

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Nothing wrong with us. It is just the muppets that have run the Club. We have a large loyal supporter base of circa 20,000 in League 3 and able to bring 1,500 to away games. There are less than 10 teams in England capable of bettering that. Be proud.

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Nothing wrong with us. It is just the muppets that have run the Club. We have a large loyal supporter base of circa 20,000 in League 3 and able to bring 1,500 to away games. There are less than 10 teams in England capable of bettering that. Be proud.

 

exactly those who knock the ones that attend games rather than be armchair fans

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I think people of my generation (in their 40's) witnessed the greatest era in the clubs history,it all sort of started to go wrong in the late 80's early 90's for lots of different reasons,ok there were a few highlights,letiss,fa cup final and a few memorable games but it just didn't seem the same as the 70's and 80's......the club and the fans were a lot closer,you could go to an away game and the same faces were with you week in and week out,I could sit or stand in any part of the dell and bump into loads of people I knew and we were all friends.

Those days seemed a lot simpler and friendlier,the club and the fans were as one 99% of the time,the players lived amongst us and shared our joy as well as feel our pain but most importantly they were approachable.

Jimmy Steele was a mate of my dads,and they used to go out on the **** together sometimes with ossie,I was mates with Dennis wise,Reuben agboola and Mark Dennis,I used to bump into chris nicholl all the time over the sports centre and he was always willing to talk about saints.

I'm not name dropping just trying to show how things have changed and IMO not for the better......how many fans these days are friends with footballers? Not many I suspect.

 

What I'm trying to say is that the club today is far removed from the club people my age grew up with,I don't like the club as it is today,I still enjoy my football but I can take it or leave it tbh.....perhaps it's my age,perhaps I'm just a grumpy old git.

All these people who claim to speak for me,sisa and the trust are all people who I know from back in the day,they were knobheads then and are knobheads now.let them have their 5 minutes of fame nobody really takes any notice of them.

 

I still love saints and I will always have an opinion but the passion is not there anymore.

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serious question..

 

some demand everything..some demand the owners bow to them...some demand knowing what pardew is doing...some have already decided adkins is a failure (before last night)...some want to sling ****e about the chairman..

 

why do we do this to ourselves..?

 

whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy:lol:

 

All football fans of all clubs are like this. You listen to Arsenal/Chelsea and even Man U fans complaining about the way they play, and even heard some say it was time for Sir Alex to move aside now his better days have gone!!

 

Football fans a crazy!!

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All football fans of all clubs are like this. You listen to Arsenal/Chelsea and even Man U fans complaining about the way they play, and even heard some say it was time for Sir Alex to move aside now his better days have gone!!

 

Football fans a crazy!!

 

Did anyone listen to the radio on the way home last night? That Arsenal fan that phond up and moaned that the Emirtaes didn't sell pies anymore FFS. After winning 6-0 he feels the need to phone up a radio station and talk about pies.

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Did anyone listen to the radio on the way home last night? That Arsenal fan that phond up and moaned that the Emirtaes didn't sell pies anymore FFS. After winning 6-0 he feels the need to phone up a radio station and talk about pies.

 

Yes I did here that one, then they all told him they had had a pie! Just before the Adkins interview where he called us S****horpe, and said a club our size should be in the 10 ten of the Championship.... premier League. Ha ha ha.

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As Saints fans i think we have gone through more than our share of managers,owners,chairmen and players who are now playing for someone else at the top level.We have also had to put up with the fiasco of the first Ted Bates statue and things like Rupert talking about Klingons etc.It doesnt help that our freefall downwards has happened in a fairly short space of time.Lets face it we were in the Prem just six years ago.

So i guess that makes a lot of us a tad bitter.

But at least it shows we all still care.

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I think people of my generation (in their 40's) witnessed the greatest era in the clubs history,it all sort of started to go wrong in the late 80's early 90's for lots of different reasons,ok there were a few highlights,letiss,fa cup final and a few memorable games but it just didn't seem the same as the 70's and 80's......the club and the fans were a lot closer,you could go to an away game and the same faces were with you week in and week out,I could sit or stand in any part of the dell and bump into loads of people I knew and we were all friends.

Those days seemed a lot simpler and friendlier,the club and the fans were as one 99% of the time,the players lived amongst us and shared our joy as well as feel our pain but most importantly they were approachable.

Jimmy Steele was a mate of my dads,and they used to go out on the **** together sometimes with ossie,I was mates with Dennis wise,Reuben agboola and Mark Dennis,I used to bump into chris nicholl all the time over the sports centre and he was always willing to talk about saints.

I'm not name dropping just trying to show how things have changed and IMO not for the better......how many fans these days are friends with footballers? Not many I suspect.

 

What I'm trying to say is that the club today is far removed from the club people my age grew up with,I don't like the club as it is today,I still enjoy my football but I can take it or leave it tbh.....perhaps it's my age,perhaps I'm just a grumpy old git.

All these people who claim to speak for me,sisa and the trust are all people who I know from back in the day,they were knobheads then and are knobheads now.let them have their 5 minutes of fame nobody really takes any notice of them.

 

I still love saints and I will always have an opinion but the passion is not there anymore.

 

 

I remember when Sperrings opened in North Baddesley circa 1980/81, pretty much the whole of the first team was there, including Keegan, plus Lawris Mac - still got the autographs! Would that happen today - probably not, just a few fringe players and reserves would be there

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Did anyone listen to the radio on the way home last night? That Arsenal fan that phond up and moaned that the Emirtaes didn't sell pies anymore FFS. After winning 6-0 he feels the need to phone up a radio station and talk about pies.

 

 

I think that was Charlie Wayman a poster off this forum who has returned to supporting his Arse-nal.....Always moaning about something..

 

 

WIFM

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Well to be honest I think this should be named what is wrong with this forum? The majority of saints fans I know in real life aren't totally ****ed off and they're not slashing their wrists. They're not boycotting and they're not refusing to listen to the radio because it's "too painful". They're also not calling for Lambert to be shipped out either. Then again neither did they join in the grief fest after Markus died - have you all got over your diana moment yet?

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I blame t'internet. People now seem obsessed with knowing what everybody else is doing all the time and why.

 

........and that too.

Although it's fun to communicate with others and exchange opinions , it's not necessary to know what everyone had for breakfast.

 

(Musli and joghurt. Cheese sarnie with goosegog jam and a cup of tea and a few of the world's best vitamin pills. BTW.)

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serious question..

 

some demand everything..some demand the owners bow to them...some demand knowing what pardew is doing...some have already decided adkins is a failure (before last night)...some want to sling ****e about the chairman..

 

why do we do this to ourselves..?

 

whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy:lol:

 

They can demand all they want, it won't make any difference.

 

They can spout opinions on here like they used to do in the pub, but just get behind the team ffs. All this access to instant information, instant publishing of opinions seems to go to people's heads. In the big picture nobody cares about the day by day gnashing of teeth and wailing in agony of posters on an Internet forum.

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I remember when Sperrings opened in North Baddesley circa 1980/81, pretty much the whole of the first team was there, including Keegan, plus Lawris Mac - still got the autographs! Would that happen today - probably not, just a few fringe players and reserves would be there

 

I remember when the newsagents opened in Mercer Way in Romsey, Danny Wallace was supposed to open it. There was a crowd of about 30 kids there who were all slightly disappointed to see a grumpy Stevie Williams there, standing in at the last minute as Wallace was sick. Seems odd now, maybe SW wasn't such a star at the time. I don't think I even kept the autograph.

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people talking of boycotting...SISA "demanding" stuff..

 

we are the ONE constant that remains at this club...yet we still ruin it (or try to)

 

Oh come on TDD. This is paranoia.

 

How are the fans responsible for a sh*t pre-season schedule and strategy ?

How are the fans resposible for the loss of form and fitness of the team ?

How are the fans responsible for our no-show on the transfer market this summer ?

How are the fans responsible for the (allegedly) non-footballing issues that caused the managerial change ?

 

I dont know why we always seem to suffer; I dont believe in luck as an issue myself.

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Oh come on TDD. This is paranoia.

 

How are the fans responsible for a sh*t pre-season schedule and strategy ?

How are the fans resposible for the loss of form and fitness of the team ?

How are the fans responsible for our no-show on the transfer market this summer ?

How are the fans responsible for the (allegedly) non-footballing issues that caused the managerial change ?

 

I dont know why we always seem to suffer; I dont believe in luck as an issue myself.

 

Fair point alpine_saint

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We feel let down, simple as that. We are given a bucket load of promises about our future year-after-year by a whole succession of boards which are never fulfilled, we have to endure changes of direction about every 15 months for whatever reasons and we never ever win anything worth winning. Everything we do as a club seems to have been done on the cheap so we know we are never going to get top players or managers and coaches here and we know all our best talent will be groomed for the highest bidder and we just know we will only ever recruit has-been's, wanna-be's and no-hoper discards from bigger clubs and we know it will all change again next year and etc. etc... so that's why we are all so tetchy and ****ed off with every new promise or revelation and every broken dream and the eternal promise of jam tomorrow.

 

I know I have not made myself popular of late because I expressed the view that Adkins is a typical Saints appointment but as a fan who saw his first game in 1948 and has remained loyal ever since it is beginning to look doubtful to me that anything will ever change here.

 

When you are young and much of this history is unknown to you it is quite understandable why you are full of undiminished hope and expectation. I was the same and sometimes still am. Those of us who have stuck it out through thick and thin (except for the second coming of Rupert Lowe) are entitled to feel a bit cheated. Disappointment must be the over-riding sentiment of any Saints fan who has endured it all for so long.

 

..and just to reinforce my point, Mr Cortese has promised a selected group of fans that the stadium will be improved. My response to that is "When?" After all Mr Cortese you have been here for over a year already and nothing has changed yet... the food is still bad, the loos are disgusting and the queues for drinks ain't worth joining. It all sounds like just another empty politicians promise, always the "What's" but never the "How's" and "When's".

 

You'll see much the same during the Labour leadership discussions.

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We in general expect to much - you can't get Nurophen for a football club. Things take time - ie writing Adkins off at this stage is bonkers in the scheme of things he hasn't been at the club for more than 5 mins - you try getting any kind of message across to X number of individuals in that time - the message will be heard but not necessarily acted on or understood 100%.

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I just let it wash over me tbh. I stopped being that bothered about football in general a long time ago. I still support the team and go to as many games as I can but my priorities changed when I had kids, got a mortgage and got married etc etc (yeah alright grandad... jog on)

 

There are illegal wars being waged and natural disasters claiming thousands of lives and hundreds of other things to get worked up about - I think a fair few here would do well to have a think about that when they post trash about pointless stuff that you have no control over anyway.

 

Here's a reactionary suggestion: Your team needs YOU - get behind them!

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After having been involved with Saints for more years than i care to remember, you would think as fans we would get used to trials and tribulations that have be-fallen this club.

After last season, which i thoroughly enjoyed, i allowed myself the luxury of relaxing and thinking with the club in safe hands, the manager up for the fight of promotion, we would party on through the season.I should have known better, just when you think it's safe to enter the water, some arse throws in another shark.Why oh why is it always SFC, that has to be at various levels of sewage, why can't we win our first game with a new manager, it happens everywhere else.

Tomorrow i will keep to my same ritual, go to the game full of hope, full of lager, but please let me walk home happy, for the cat's sake, please.

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