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Earliest age to take a child to a football match?


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Mrs Colinjb's little girl is 2 years and 4 months old and following on from the explaination of where I go every other weekend is already asking if she can 'go and see the Saints.'

 

I'm sure she is too young at the moment to appreciate what is going on but I am open to suggestion. How old were your kids when you took them to their first match? How did they react to it? How important was the choice of game?

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Took my little lad recently to the Brentford game, bad choice I know, but it was for a birthday treat. It was his second Birthday and amazingly he sat in his seat for the full 90 minutes. I was prepared for him to last about 10 minutes, but he was completely glued. This was his second game, his first was the Ajax game, aged 7 months, he watched about 10 mins then slept through the rest.

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Took my little lad recently to the Brentford game, bad choice I know, but it was for a birthday treat. It was his second Birthday and amazingly he sat in his seat for the full 90 minutes. I was prepared for him to last about 10 minutes, but he was completely glued. This was his second game, his first was the Ajax game, aged 7 months, he watched about 10 mins then slept through the rest.

 

Blimey, my nipper is nearly 3 and hadn't even considered taking him yet! How did he react when people shouted at the ref or when a goal was scored?

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My eldest sons first match was the 1st game at St Marys against Espanyol when he was 4 years old. After the initial interest waned I kept his spirits up with sweets & fizzy pop. I don't think he slept for 2 days after that. :lol:

 

He started going to occasional games during the 2002/2003 season, including the FA Cup final, which incidentally was the first match he saw saints lose, we had tears.

 

He's been a sesaon ticket holder since.

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Took my eldest , now 23, to the Dell when he was 5. Vital game against Villa and he did not like the noise.

But my the time he was 7 had a season ticket

Youngest lad is 15 and saw the first game at SMS

Supporting SAints teaches them about life, ups and downs.

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My youngest is 4 I first took him a couple of seasons ago and he loves it he's been 6 times this season can tell you who Lambert , Barnard and Adam Banana is from up in the stand he also knows a few songs ! Obviously it pretty much depends where you sit and what team we're playing etc . It's never too early imo!

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Took my daughter to her first game when she was 7 as the old boy that sat next to me in the Upper Centre West Stand let me take over his ST due to his health, she decided not to go any more when she met the son-in-law when she was 18. My Dad took me to my first game in October 1959 as a fith birthday treat stood down the front of The Milton as they say the rest is history.

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Took my 3yo nipper to his first game in April of the season when it looked like we would go bust, just so I could tell him he went. He has a 100% win record.

 

I'd say that was too young though, they can't concentrate and from 20 minutes in, he wanted to go. My advice is to take things they can play with/do/colour in/break/eat etc - avoid lots of drink early on, as you'll be in the loo more often than in your seat (took my nephew to the Dell and make that mistake - cue huge roar and when I asked a steward what happened, he replied "a Matty screamer!". My nephew never saw Matty score ever again).

 

I'm tempted to do one of the hospitality things for £49+vat next time, since he'll be free to come with my (he's 5 now) and would get more out of it that way, I think.

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My 6 year old son is a season ticket holder this year for the first time after taking him to wembley for the jpt when he was 5 3/4 last season as the first game. Other than the aforementioned requirement to distract him with sweets and crisps during the dull periods/half time there are no problems and indeed saints have rapidly become his obsession (not what his Man utd supporting mother wanted!!!). I think the timing for him has been pretty much perfect and I wish my dad had done the same earlier with me in hindsight. Also have a second son who will be 5 in Feb and will get him a ticket next season and try him out for a game towards the summer. In my experience its not the noise that will be an issue (actually he loves it) but more the concentration span plus the risk that a few bad experiences and you risk losing them to United or Chelsea for life just like all their mates.....

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Now my little boy has just turned 5 yrs old and is genuinly taking an interest and demanding to be Saints on FIFA,table footie and such like he will venture to his first game,accompanied by myself and his grandad.

I will be bursting when i take him to the megastore to by him his first proper kit,he did have a mini kit when he was about 18 months,coupled wth the fact their will be 3 generations of us going together.

My deciding factor will be when/if the weather is a little more conjusive for a little'un.

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I took 1 of my twin daughters aged 5 to the wallsall game last season ...didn't show too much interest, but we won 5-0.

Took the other twin to the Huddersfield game last season and we won 5-1.

 

Took the 1st twin to the Exeter game last week (now aged 6) and it was a totally different experience (and we won 4-0). So between the them, they have seen 14 goals in three games.

 

To make things fair, the question is, when should I take the 2nd twin again?

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Took my Godson to a pre-season friendly at St.Mary's when he was 5, he lasted longer than i did, it was a complete bore-fest! He started taking a real interest after about his 3 game but then he was a in a question-a-minute-mode which didn't bother me but i think his dad was grateful for the tag-team answering. I think the interest is increased when they start school and they get to play every week in PE.

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took my son at the age of six,against fulham at the cottage,we lost,but he still loves the saints.its a good age,they arent getting bored and wanting to go to the loo every five minutes,or wanting to go home cos they are bored.its good to take them before they see too much of the glory hunting teams on sky cos then its an uphill battle

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Started taking my nipper to Reserve games when they were at the Dell when he was about 5. His first "real" game was at home to Ipswich when he was 6. 7 goals, a penalty and a sending off.

 

Trouble was he thought every game was going to be like that.

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I went to my first game aged 5 back in the early/mid eighties. Coventry at home and there was pretty much no one there. My main memory of the match was the box that i was standing on (despite the stand being empty) and getting hit by the ball in the pre match warm up.

 

Guess it depends on the kid though since i've had one infront of me before who just played his DS the whole game, total waste of a ticket that another saints fan could have, and this was in the days when it wasn't easy to get tickets.

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My eldest is 7 and has been a season ticket holder since he was 4, my youngest is 3 he started going when he was 2, he has a season ticket this year as well, only take them to the Saturday games, they both love it. I do have the advantage that my Brother and Dad also go with us, so plenty of people to keep them in check, I started them both off on a few cup games, they soon got hooked.

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Took my boy at nearly 3 to his first game, which was the final home game of the 08/09 season, when we were relegated by Burnley. Not an auspicious start, obviously, but I wanted him to go to at least 1 Saints match in case we went bust and didn't 'make it'...

 

Happily, he still goes now - aged 4 1/2 - and really loves it. Hopefully, a future season ticket holder in the making!

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Blimey, my nipper is nearly 3 and hadn't even considered taking him yet! How did he react when people shouted at the ref or when a goal was scored?

 

To be fair it was the Brentford game, so we never actually scored. We sat in the family section, plenty of empty seats so wasn't particulary noisey. He certainly didnt have a problem with me airing my views though, politely ofcourse. Took plently of stuff to keep him occupied, IPAD etc. but never took it out the bag. He was just content to sit and watch.

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I first took my son when he was 2 to saints v charlton when we lost 3-2 in the championship relegation season and he loved it. He was the only person smiling at the end of the game!

 

So last season I got a season ticket with the free under 8 ticket and he's been coming to the afternoon games since then. He'll be 4 in April and hardly any trouble at all. Just have to put up with 3-4 trips to the toilet and stock up with sweets and juice.

 

Take her to a couple of games and see how it goes is my advice.

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Took my then 5 year old daughter to the JPT final, she loved the day but got a bit bored with the football and spent the last 20mins with the girl on the next seat doing each others hair. Still she is a big Southampton fan and has the kit, scarf and hat, she keeps asking when we will be playing Arsenal (her Granddad is an Arsenal fan), I keep telling her when Arsenal are good enough.

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I went to a couple of reserve matches before SMS opened in 2001. That was about the age of 5 or 6 upwards.

 

I first started going regularly in 2001 though I was 8, almost 9. I enjoyed that a lot and still go with my dad today at the age of 18!

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My first game was when I was 5. We played Everton (as I was an Everton fan for some reason, my dad didn't force Saints on me despite being a big fan) and drew 1-1. From then on I've been a Saints fan. The next year I had my first season ticket, I'm now onto my 18th. I'm actually glad we got relegated as all I knew was Premier League, now I'll appriciate it when we get back there.

 

I would say 4-5 is a good age to take a kid to their first few games.

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I was lucky enough to take my daughter to her first game as a hospitality guest. She was 7 at the time and loved it, more for the food than the football. She does come with me to the odd game but only at the start and end of the season as she refuses to go in the cold weather.

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